How to end fights easily?

Stay blessed and keep the LOVE alive!

This shouldn't be considered negative.Every couple fights, it's very natural and normal.Fights are normal because you two are very different people who are trying to share a life together and get over the differences. The part where your feelings and affection come in is where you actually stop the fight and get closer again, some couples can do it easily while others just elongate the process. Here is some ways Which may help to end fights quickly and easily, let's have a look.

Calm down yourself

Don't let your anger take control of your thoughts. Once your anger starts to control, everything will go downhill very quickly, so try your best to be as calm as you can be.

Think of how much they mean to you

Love can't just die because you two can't agree on something, true love stays the same and shows its face as soon as the two of you calm down. The true beauty of love is to love them even when you want to hate them
we slowly start calming each other down and eventually get back to normal again, the important thing to remember during arguments and fights is how much we love each other and how important they are for us as that's what matters in the end.

Don't ignore the topic

"Ignorance method", it's one of the stupidest methods durings fights and lead to negative results for all couples as noticed.
To just ignore the fight&let it "fix itself" and pretend to be normal with each other things DOES NOT work that way! The problem is going to stay there until you talk it out and end it up with a solution.

Don't elongate the fight

Time is very important don't miss it.
Taking days before getting normal with each other after every fight is not healthy for You two. End it right there and then,don't let it live for too long,don't let it create any sort of distance between you two.

Don't you ever use the "Past Card"

It isn't a competition and you have to win NEVER use each other's past to make each other feel weaker.
It's about solving the problem not about winning or losing.
If you used this way it may leads to a bigger fight,it may hurt there feelings more than you can imagine.
Don't increase the problem by using each other's weaknesses.Argue using the facts, argue about the problem, find a solution to the problem.

Get closure after every argument

It's natural to fight, as long as it doesn't become excessive and unhealthy.
After each fight, make sure that you two come to an agreement and put an end to the fight together.
Getting closure is very important after every argument.

stay blessed and keep the love alive!

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