OooH!Your girl asks for a break!

How to deal with this?



The relationship between a girlfriend and a boyfriend is so intimate that when either one of them asks for some space, things get a little messy. It might cause a huge shock to those who think that nothing can harm their relationship and their partner cannot live without them. In such a case, one may not know what to do and some people may end up reacting in a way that leads to completely destroying their relationship.
Many people come across this certain phase in their relationship where their partner asks for a break or for some space.



The best thing to do is to stay calm and relax. We end up giving the worse reactions in such situations because we don’t think at all. we may do things which can make our partner want something more than such a space!



Reactions may vary from person to person but even in that case the best thing to do is to understand and listen.



We are here to help you dealing with this situation.There are a few things that one can do if their girlfriend asks them for some space.
Let's have a look below:



1-Listen carefully and try your best to understand




If you listen carefully,try to find the actual reason.
she may be going through some very serious emotional problems which she is ashamed to share with you therefore easier for you to understand her situation first

Reacting aggressively and being unreasonable will only worsen the situation.



2-Use your mind..State the facts and rules




If you are ready to give her the space that she wants which you should, you should tell her the rules and the facts.

These facts and rules include the distance that you will maintain in the time of giving her space. Similarly it will also include a few differences that she may experience after she decides that she doesn't need space anymore.



3-Make sure you are not kept as a stand-by option




If your partner is in love with another person, then make sure that when they ask you for some space, you make it clear to them that if this is the case then you are not ready to be a standby option. Usually in such cases, the girlfriend wants her real boyfriend to stay there while she finds out whether the other guy is good enough for her or not.

Make sure you find out what is actually happening so you finish everything in time.



4-If you feel like there is someone else, try breaking it off yourself




Sometimes, asking for some space or some break is the first step towards an actual break up. This is the reason why we believe that you should be the first one to make things easier and tell your partner that it's ok and you can break up now.



5-Work a little on your own self as well




Try not let the whole scenario damage you emotionally. No matter what happens in life, we have to take care of our own selves. In such a situation where there is a fair possibility of you having a mental breakdown, it is better that you take very good care of yourself and consider yourself as your top priority.



This is what came up in our minds,,if there are other ways in your mind which may help a person in such situation share it with us in the comments below!








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